The Delivery Room

Hello everyone, how are you doing? Staying smart, clean and healthy I hope? Please do. Today's topic was inspired by my cousin Ali and more like given by my big sister Grace; my personal host ( by that, I mean I perch on her and everything she has - what are big sisters for ehy?). I can't remember how the topic came up in our home this weekend but it caused a serious debate, with Ali being the only male so we were 3 girls against him :D. So let me ask you now; guys, will you go into the delivery room with your wife? And ladies, would you want your husband to go into the delivery room with you?

The Marriage Ambition

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Hello people. I didn't plan to talk about marriage today, but, today that has been the topic all around me. I'll give you a background summary of the marriage hits today. First, I read one of my favourite blogs-Tommyslav's Island where a woman's quest for love somehow led her into a troubled marriage, you should visit the site (if you don't already know it), she posts really interesting fictional stories weekly. The second was a real life discussion about a lady who has set up her wedding date with a man she met 5 months ago and the final was in church, we had a "Single and Fulfilled" sermon. 

I know many people have diverse views on marriage; what it is about, why it should be or why not, when and blah blah blah. I'll give my truth about the topic. Marriage is not a joking matter. It is a serious covenant between two people giving themselves to each other and meant to last forever. That being said, it is obvious that a matter like this should not be rushed into. Thinking about it, where are you rushing to? You go deh der tire!( Not tire in a bad way, hopefully). With all the love in the world between two people, they still encounter problems and struggles in their marriage-it happens and it's okay as long as their love and faith in their love can help them overcome the struggles. Now think of going through such struggles with a partner you barely know or someone you were pushed to marry for some silly reason. My dears, it's not a funny thing at all. Don't try it oh!