Friday, 16 March 2018

Life in shades of grey...

Hi everyone. How is your end of the world? There has been so much negativity on the news lately and I've just been thinking how much more we all need to be accepting of people and our differences.
In the past, I've wondered if it's okay that I like the things I like and care about people the way I do and don't care about certain things the way people do.
I've wondered if not agreeing with the things the world, society, church, school, family and friends have set as rules makes me unfit to be "one of them" but then I have never really been able to find any group worthy enough to make me squeeze so much to make a perfect fit in their "sacred worlds". Don't get me wrong, I love peace beyond anything in this world and I am a team player, never the one to go out of my way to rebel but I'm also not one to accept everything I'm served. I work and walk with my heart, my faith and my mind and I ask a lot of questions, it could get annoying. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, I basically do what works for me, what I'm convinced within to be right (of course sometimes I do wrong), as I try to let others do what works for them.

Thursday, 8 March 2018

Happy International Women's Day!

Hi everyone. Happy International Women's Day to my fellow AMAZONS! 
It's our day, yipee! 
To be honest, this is the first year I've been this excited about our day. I've always been a woman's woman but I never had that special excitement for our day but this year is different. Could it be that I'm embracing my (almost) old age? It's still almost please, for the next 10 years at least ๐Ÿ˜‹. 

Wednesday, 28 February 2018


To conquer anything or anyone, to be able to achieve something great, to do anything worth doing at all, you've got to first believe that you can.

Many of us seek self control in various areas of life; in abstaining from food as part of your diet plans or during a fasting period, or in taking time off social media for personal reasons, or taming your tongue to speak only kind words, or to stay dedicated to your workout routine, anything. To be able to control yourself and stay true to your plan, you have to train your mind to believe that you'll survive without that thing. Train your mind to believe you can do what you want to do and achieve your desired results regardless of the painful discipline you may need to endure.

It all starts in the mind.
To tame your flesh, you'll have to first train your mind. The flesh usually carries out actions the mind has thought to be desirable. 
Start the real battle, control your mind, watch what you let in for it slowly becomes a part of you. 

Tuesday, 20 February 2018

The Word of God Gives Peace!

Hi guys, how are we? How is the whole Val’s aftermath? I hope you all had fun and were genuinely happy because really, that’s all that matters and I hope that you’re not saving up all your love for next year again because love is an every second event my darlings. Anyway, speaking on love, today I’d like to talk about the greatest of all; God’s love and specifically His Word.

Over the years, I’ve struggled through dark times and it seems to get more intense as I grow older. You realize you’re grown up and you’re practically accountable for yourself and all your actions. There’s no adult to call on or to blame because you’re supposedly adult enough to handle whatever the situation is. People expect you to know it all and when you fail, you’re scolded and judged by the world, including those who know you and those who don’t. Yes, it sucks but it is life and we can’t control what people think nor can we tell them how to react to things. However, we can talk to one who understands and when we can’t find the words to spill out our hurt, we can simply listen to His pure love as it heals our broken hearts.

Wednesday, 14 February 2018

Let's Talk About Love

Sooo, in the spirit of Valentine’s Day, let’s talk about love. I mean the pure kind, the kind that we should have for one another, not the epileptic kind which seems to have polluted the world today.
I always say, love is hard work! Don’t get me wrong, love is sweet, amazing and the best gift ever. 

However, when love is tested, it feels like a huge rock placed on your chest, or is that only me? No? Anyone? I know I have partners in this feeling. Now, love is not the enemy here, as people like to bitterly and I must admit poetically write about. Love in itself is amazing but the instruments of love; you and I, are humans bound to make mistakes in life and sometimes these mistakes cause pain to our loved ones. Many times, we really do not mean to but alas, it happens. 

I’m not about to go through the painful details of what we do with love or shall I say the consequences of love. I’m only here as a reality check for us all, to remind us of the ups and downs of human relationships and to reassure us that Love is eternal and Love has got us and I’ll summarize them with a few of my favorite love quotes below: 

Monday, 15 January 2018

My God & Me

Hi guys! How are y'all doing? 
I mentioned a few new changes to the blog. Yes, the look and now, a new very important section; My God and me. 

I’ve been meaning to add this section for quite a while now but for some unknown reason(s), I’ve delayed for way too long. I’m here now and glad to be alive to do this so hey, welcome to my very imperfect journey as a Christian. 

This section will cover my walk with God; I’ll be sharing things I learn, testimonies of how God has saved me and keeps saving me and others, hope in this dark world we live in, struggles, etc.  I hope you stick around and most importantly, I hope somewhere, somehow, the words here would save someone. 

Always and forever, love and light to you and yours.

Monday, 8 January 2018

Happy New Year!!!

I know it's kinda late but still... Happy New Year Everyone!!! 

It's been forever! How was your 2017? I don't know about you, but I'm super excited about 2018. Okay, okay, a little bit of fear and a truckload of excitement. I can't wait to see how the year goes. I'm very optimistic and I'm trying to put in all I can to make sure it goes the way I want it to and I advise you do same. No more, laying around wishing for good things, we're getting our asses off the couch and getting what we hope and pray for.

As you can see, I switched up the blog look, tell me you like it๐Ÿ˜Š. There will be a few more changes soon. I just came to drop some love and wish you a wonderful year ahead. May this year be your best year yet!

Always and forever, lots of love๐Ÿ’!

Life in shades of grey...

Hi everyone. How is your end of the world? There has been so much negativity on the news lately and I've just been thinking how much...