Showing posts with label children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label children. Show all posts

Wednesday, 22 October 2014

Parenting - The "Little Things" You Do That Ruin Your Child

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Hi everyone. How is work, love and life treating you, I hope we're happy with at least one of these. I want to talk about parenting and I hope I can stick to "the little things" here - whatever they are. Some of us are parents already, some will be, pretty soon, and some, hope to be one day. The thing is, many people have no idea what it takes to be parents, yes, even some that have 20 kids already. It's not just about giving birth so you could bear the title mummy/daddy, having little ones to send on errands to the nearby store or simply to have people to take care of you when you're old and gray. No, it goes way beyond that. Having children should not be for your selfish reasons alone (yes, alone because let's face it, it should be for our joy too). The society we have today is one way or another as a result of the grooming the people received by the parents. One day, your daughter might be president, your son might be an ambassador, what values will you instill in them? The foundation of everything in life goes a long way in determining the strength and success of that entity. Our children's foundations should be built by us and I tell you it is not an easy task at all, there are influences everywhere but at the end of the day they come back home to you and they look up to you the most. What do you tell them is wrong or right? What do you trash out and tell them never to pick up again? Do you tell them why? Let's look at some things parents do that affect their kids and hopefully, let's start to amend our ways; it's never too late to try.

Monday, 11 August 2014

The Delivery Room



Hello everyone, how are you doing? Staying smart, clean and healthy I hope? Please do. Today's topic was inspired by my cousin Ali and more like given by my big sister Grace; my personal host ( by that, I mean I perch on her and everything she has - what are big sisters for ehy?). I can't remember how the topic came up in our home this weekend but it caused a serious debate, with Ali being the only male so we were 3 girls against him :D. So let me ask you now; guys, will you go into the delivery room with your wife? And ladies, would you want your husband to go into the delivery room with you?

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