The Word of God Gives Peace!

Hi guys, how are we? How is the whole Val’s aftermath? I hope you all had fun and were genuinely happy because really, that’s all that matters and I hope that you’re not saving up all your love for next year again because love is an every second event my darlings. Anyway, speaking on love, today I’d like to talk about the greatest of all; God’s love and specifically His Word.

Over the years, I’ve struggled through dark times and it seems to get more intense as I grow older. You realize you’re grown up and you’re practically accountable for yourself and all your actions. There’s no adult to call on or to blame because you’re supposedly adult enough to handle whatever the situation is. People expect you to know it all and when you fail, you’re scolded and judged by the world, including those who know you and those who don’t. Yes, it sucks but it is life and we can’t control what people think nor can we tell them how to react to things. However, we can talk to one who understands and when we can’t find the words to spill out our hurt, we can simply listen to His pure love as it heals our broken hearts.

Friends and Toxic Friendships….

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Hey guys, how have you all been? I know it has been a while again; I have been dealing with spiritual, mental, financial and emotional issues. Yes, ALL of them and perhaps even more. Have I got them all figured out? Nope, but let’s just say, I’m in a better place now. I have missed you more than you can ever know and I apologize yet again for my absence. I know your loving hearts will be kind enough to forgive me, one of the reasons why I love you guys and NO, I am not taking you for granted AT ALL, I love you too much.

Okay, so with all the love in my heart right now, I decided that we should talk a bit about friends/friendships. Yes, friends! I’m not going to the dictionary definition now because, I have come to see that many of us define who friends are differently. Basically, I want to know what one must do before you can term that one as a friend. Do I have to make you laugh, be rich, do I have to be smart or sexy or fine or a good listener or a good cook? Or do I not need to do anything at all?

The Marriage Ambition

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Hello people. I didn't plan to talk about marriage today, but, today that has been the topic all around me. I'll give you a background summary of the marriage hits today. First, I read one of my favourite blogs-Tommyslav's Island where a woman's quest for love somehow led her into a troubled marriage, you should visit the site (if you don't already know it), she posts really interesting fictional stories weekly. The second was a real life discussion about a lady who has set up her wedding date with a man she met 5 months ago and the final was in church, we had a "Single and Fulfilled" sermon. 

I know many people have diverse views on marriage; what it is about, why it should be or why not, when and blah blah blah. I'll give my truth about the topic. Marriage is not a joking matter. It is a serious covenant between two people giving themselves to each other and meant to last forever. That being said, it is obvious that a matter like this should not be rushed into. Thinking about it, where are you rushing to? You go deh der tire!( Not tire in a bad way, hopefully). With all the love in the world between two people, they still encounter problems and struggles in their marriage-it happens and it's okay as long as their love and faith in their love can help them overcome the struggles. Now think of going through such struggles with a partner you barely know or someone you were pushed to marry for some silly reason. My dears, it's not a funny thing at all. Don't try it oh!