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Hey guys, how are you doing? So I read some days back, a week or so, anyway, about a young girl who committed suicide after being cyber bullied. I decided to talk about it a little today. I got really pissed because to me, her reason was not valid at all. Don't get me wrong, I don't believe there is any reason for one to commit suicide but as people do, sometimes when you hear what they've been through, you feel like you could relate with the situation they were in.
I think almost everyone must have played with the thoughts of suicide once or many times before;whether as a child for a silly reason or as an adult due to tough times. I think it's normal. I think it is extremely stupid to commit suicide on whatever basis, but if you will then please be kind enough to leave a note so we could understand. I hate it when they leave us guessing, it's like they just leave you hanging like an unfinished really interesting book or movie series.
Back to the case I read that brought the thoughts in. So the girl was a really young college student(fresher) who was also a porn actress. A porn movie of hers was just released and her high school mates where bashing her with insults and taunts online. She couldn't take it and so she killed herself. I was reading it and I was like, seriously??? Well, this is according to the report I read. I'm hoping they don't know what they are talking about, not like it makes a difference though. So I was thinking, wait, were you expecting an applause? People release good books and get bashed everyday for it and you act a porn movie and what were you expecting? Come on, it is no news that to be out there you need a thick skin. Heck, to go through life, you need a thick skin, a thicker one to be out there and one of the thickest to be out there in the porn industry.
Oh well, my advice, please don't ever commit suicide ehn, if the devil takes over so hard, please be kind enough to leave us a letter biko. I know sometimes life hits you with things you feel you can't carry, please be brave enough to keep trying, you know the saying "where there's life, there's hope". And for those who feel because of what someone feels or says about you or does to you, you should commit suicide, know this; No one is worth making you want to kill yourself, no one is worth making you feel like you don't belong here on this planet, NO ONE SHOULD HAVE THAT POWER OVER YOU. And I'm done!
Have you guys played with the thoughts of suicide before? Please share...
Yeah, suicide comes to mind when we get blinded by current negative happenings. When the things we fear the most come knocking at our doors. I remember vividly when I lost someone very dear to my heart, it took the grace of God to wipe suicide off my mind.
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Thanks dear. Thank God for His Grace oh. We're here for a reason, giving up to me is being very ungrateful to God, regardless of the situation, even though like I said, I can relate with the thoughts of it and I think it's normal for these thoughts to come.
ReplyDeleteI can't say I've never wanted to leave the world because I was just so tired and it all felt hopeless but when I think about how selfish it would be to hurt those that love me in that way it's so not worth it. Nothing lasts forever even the bad stuff we just have to keep moving forward.
ReplyDeleteVery true, I think about that a lot too. You're right, the storm will surely pass.
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