Letting Go

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Happy Independence day fellow Nigerians. Are you celebrating? I'm not, well not ceremoniously at least. Today, I want to talk about letting go. Yes, letting go of habits, emotions, people, things, and everything worth letting go of. You see, life is very interesting. With all of its ups and downs, we go through experiences that many times leave us with souvenirs - good and bad. Sometimes, these souvenirs keep us from moving forward, from getting better things and all we really need to do is to let go. I say "all we really need to do" like it's something so simple, far from it. It is hard as hell and very often takes time. For some people it's a process; a journey but the good news is that IT IS DOABLE. YOU CAN LET GO.

Playing The Victim Card... in other ways...

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One of the few things that disgust me a great deal,  is people throwing in the victim card. Now, don’t get it twisted, I’ve found myself doing this many times. When realization hit me, I just got really pissed at myself so I went deeper to find out what triggers that act. I just had to find a way to stop it.  Now I’m so conscious of it,  but unfortunately,  I still find myself doing it from time to time and it leaves a really sour taste in my mouth. Here, I'm talking generally about people who feel like victims of life's hardships.