For The Love of Food

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Hey guys? How are we all doing? I know I have told you food makes me happy right? Yes, so today, I'll like to share with you one of my favorite soups-Banga soup. I know how Niger Delta restaurant in Wuse 2, Abuja drained my cash in the name of Starch and Banga. I totally love that dish and so I'll say it was worth it, but my small money started finishing anyhow and so I had to cut down drastically. Now, because I love you and I believe I have partners out there who love this soup, I will gladly share the recipe with you (not mine oh- I'm learning too). Follow me darlings...

Friends and Toxic Friendships….

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Hey guys, how have you all been? I know it has been a while again; I have been dealing with spiritual, mental, financial and emotional issues. Yes, ALL of them and perhaps even more. Have I got them all figured out? Nope, but let’s just say, I’m in a better place now. I have missed you more than you can ever know and I apologize yet again for my absence. I know your loving hearts will be kind enough to forgive me, one of the reasons why I love you guys and NO, I am not taking you for granted AT ALL, I love you too much.

Okay, so with all the love in my heart right now, I decided that we should talk a bit about friends/friendships. Yes, friends! I’m not going to the dictionary definition now because, I have come to see that many of us define who friends are differently. Basically, I want to know what one must do before you can term that one as a friend. Do I have to make you laugh, be rich, do I have to be smart or sexy or fine or a good listener or a good cook? Or do I not need to do anything at all?